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Thursday, August 02, 2007

Baby Steps



for mama says om


Well ,
days turn into weeks and weeks turn into months . With time comes change and with change comes the decision to 'go with the flow' .

We have decided to preserve our annual family vacation to the beach this year , even with the unpredictability of my Step-daughter's daily struggle to beat her eating disorder.
She has been trying really hard in her program to overcome the pull of this insidious and tenacious disease. It has not been easy for her. Or us.

She will be transitioning into a part-time program this week and with any luck she will be joining us for at least part of our vacation, albeit in a slightly altered form . There will be guidelines( one of which is ZERO exercise) and a structure for meals that never existed before. It will be challenging for all of us but we are all in alignment on this to offer her the support she needs for a successful recovery. Fingers crossed , all will go fairly well and she might even be able to have some much-needed fun.


Exciting news on the baby front ....

Bug decided to take his very first unaided steps yesterday !!! YAY , Colin !!!

He has been physically able for weeks now but would not walk without holding onto a finger while toddling along beside us.
He just turned 16 months and we were beginning to wonder if he was ever going to do it . He just needed to make up his mind to do it .He is a brave but cautious little boy .I guess that is a good thing in the grand scheme of things.

He was over his cousin Kate's house when he first tried it ( of course , we missed it !)But later that night, he was playing with his favorite truck and made a pirouette into a stand and VOILA ! One foot in front of the other - steps !!!

We are so proud our kids have turned out to be so brave and persevering.
Toddler & teenager .
It takes those initial baby steps to get started on any new endeavor , but it is
the decision to take those first steps is what propels us forth into a brave new world.

Good work , kids.




4 comments:

delhidreams said...

when i am a dad
with a kid to be glad
i'll barge in through the door
and ask you for more
:)
till then with the baby bug,
lemme grow up a bit more

delhidreams said...

* more as in more tips for parenthood :)

PAUL SEIDELL said...

sounds terrible..... i felt something had happened bad when you were in ma .... I havent been very spiritual at all .. and sometime believe the story my mind has made ...,,and make them my truth..... when the truth is not known.... I guess we each have sorrow and pain and cant avoid it no matter what defense mechanism we have ....I wish I could have given some comfort to you. Paul Andrew Seidell, Easthampton Massachusetts
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Anonymous said...

He is adorable. i know i have said that before. isnt it something that when they go from motoring on the knees to standing that you really see that they are no longer a baby but now a toddler - even though it was just a minute earlier that they were still just a baby.

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